Everyone wants to be attractive, but the question is whether attraction solely depends on physical appearance? If you think so then you really should read this because attraction doesn’t just concern with physical appearance but with your mind and personality as well. A good looking person can hold your interest for few minutes but if he or she is not good at heart or soul then you will no longer find the person attractive.
Being undeniably attractive means being the one people adore and want to be around with. If you want to naturally draw others to confide in you, want to be your friend then you really need not try so hard because it is really simple. You have to aim at having a good and authentic personality rather than a perfect body.
If you are ready to try to be a more vibrant, memorable and an attractive person then take these proactive steps to begin the process of enhancing the inner attractiveness and getting greater appreciation in the eyes of others. Consider the following pointers
Strive To Do What Is Right And Be Good
In order to be an attractive person, one of the major things you have to focus on is by having a great sense of right and wrong and to choose to be on the right path. Choosing to be good and right for humankind you can increase your appeal relatively. Be an inspiration to others. Try to do the things that are in the best interest of the group rather than just the interest of your own self.
Be Calm And Gentle Rather Than Forceful In Your Interactions
People often come off as an arrogant person when they show their confidence. There’s nothing wrong with being a confident person but this trait when shown in communication in a rather forceful and arrogant way then it can be a reason to avoidance rather than attraction. Don’t act like a know-it-all person even though you have a good knowledge about things. Approach people with a gentle and calm exterior rather than a forceful and brash manner. People will admire your confidence only when they find you an attractive person and that will happen only when you are gentle and calm.
Be Steadfast In Your Honesty And Trustworthiness
Often a person who is honest about his opinions is considered to be straightforward and blunt. But honesty is different than being blunt. If the same opinion is delivered in a polite and well-meaning tone then people will gravitate towards you rather than gravitate away from you. Always be honest and trustworthy towards people because these are the traits that people often look for when they want to confide or depend on someone.
Try Not To Be Cruel, Judgmental Or Superficial
Humans have always been judgmental about everything. But it is something you have to refrain from doing because when you pass cruel and judgmental comments on others you give a bad impression about yourself. Don’t just react to someone without thinking and on impulse in an unkind way because it is as repelling as being judgmental. Be an accepting and forgiving individual. Refrain from acting in these manners and you’ll see the difference.
Be Supportive And A Source Of Love For Others
People are attracted towards a person who is genuinely supportive and warm towards everyone. They not only seek your support in their bad times but they prefer your company even in good times. Let others know that you are going to offer your unwavering support to them in their bad and good times and you’ll automatically find them attracted toward you.
Be Happy With Your Own Distinctive Self
If you think that people find you unattractive just because you are different and have a distinctive personality then you have got your facts wrong. As long as you are happy and confident about what you are, people will adore and love you to no bounds. Don’t worry if you like downright quirky and boho things because people like those who bring something different to the table. Do not restrict your own personality just for the sake of others because then you’ll be faking your own personality.
Project Positivity And Light
Positivity injects hope and confidence in other people. People will look forward to your companionship because of all the positive vibes you give. Do not hold negative feelings towards anyone. If you project negative vibes then unknowingly you are going to push people away from you.
Love And Believe In Yourself
Be an inspiration to others. To be that you have to love your own self, be proud of what you have and what you are. People will be attracted to you when you believe and love yourself and seem to show the same affection to others around you. Because people will respect and seek the company of people who know their own worth and value things.
Lead Life With Enthusiasm And Passion
Do not lead a same repetitive and boring life. Even if you spend your life in the same field of work or job just try to find passion in the little things you do and do them with enthusiasm. Be spontaneous in things you do because no one is going to want your company if you be slow and boring.
Smile, As Much As You Can
A smile is a single curve that sets all things straight. This is a simple yet an incredible one. When we smile we automatically become more attractive, approachable and friendly. Just a keep smile on our face while walking on a sidewalk and you’ll see that most of them will give you a smile back, that’s the magic of a small smile.
Maintain Eye Contact And Listen Carefully
Eye contact means you are attentive, engaged and listening. It is absolutely necessary to maintain eye contact in order to show the individual that you are listening. You’ll get a better response when you have an eye contact. This is one physical aspect that attracts people.
Keep An Open Mind
It is good to be spontaneous and flexible in life. When you are too rigid and close minded people seem to stay away from you due to the fact that you are not ready to accommodate new things or changes in your life. It is definitely good to have things planned out for future and present but it is for your best to keep an opening for little changes here and there.
Welcome The Opinion And Insight Of Others
If you want to attract people and not be alone or uninvited to social and professional events then you have to be open to the opinion of others. Respect others opinion and value them by taking other’s advice only then people will consider you as welcoming.
Take Good Care Of Your Body And Mind
People are insanely attracted to those who are well-groomed, well-dressed and well-mannered. Keep good habits and take care of your body by eating good and healthy food and stimulate your mind with knowledge. Don’t neglect these things otherwise you’ll come off as a really unattractive person. A person who doesn’t take care of self probably won’t care about anything else.
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