Happy couples are those lucky chaps who seem to have survived the tension and tug of war of a relationship. We often anticipate these people as blessed ones, but in reality, these people are more logical than simply lucky. The simple equation of a successful relationship is accepting each other for the sake of a better conjugal life, which we call nuptial life.
Happiness in a marital relationship, as claimed by a marriage counsellor, is based on “forget and forgive” dictum to a large extent. Just allowing some unpleasant feelings to let go, a couple can really extract the best possible happiness out of their marital life…but is there any formula of letting go unwanted stuff?
Let’s plunge into the topic.
Never be critical about sharing responsibility
One of the most protruding facets in conjugal life is the inception of the words like we, our, and us. It is seen globally that happy couples work like a team; there are responsibilities, but when there is an amicable understanding between the two and that the partnership a really loving one, it makes the relationship a long lasting alliance.
Let go of compulsion, and you will really be happy in your marital relationship.
Let’s forget about the past
A happy couple lives in the present and paves the path for a secure future. They do not brood much on past memories unless it is sweet and inspirational. The duos hardly make their nest on past mistakes and follies, but on present understanding and mutual trust in each other.
One of the major let go subjects is the memory of past relationship and the related tension. Once a couple forgets the past and they let go the old memories for the sake of a bright future, they can really be a happy couple.
Keep your personal world away from others
It is really not possible to extend honeymoon after a certain time. A couple has to come back to a real world but there also they can maintain a private zone for each other. Both the persons can be really busy, but at least for 1-2 hours a day they can be available to each other only.
Want to be a happy couple? Understanding and verbal interaction between each other is a real need for keeping a relation alive. Let go your mobile and digital media world off at least for 1 hour every day when you both are together.
Let go of sarcasm about marriage and bossing
It is a sheer fact that there are juicy jokes about the follies in marriage as well as there are jokes about irrationalities and ridiculousness of husband-wife relationship. Let go away all this sarcasm and keep your trust on love and affection for each other. You will find happiness for sure.
Bad jokes about marriage may seem smart for the moment, but in reality that brings a negative effect on the mutual love and respect for each other.
Similarly bossing in a relationship makes a relation stuffy and boring. So let go away the tendency of bossing and taming in order to enjoy happiness unlimited.
Offer respect for in-laws
In-laws are human beings too and there are social obligations for all of us to maintain. You mom-in- law may not be your biological mother, but she is a mother-like- figure. If you adjust with your in-laws, it will oblige your spouse and he/she will take care of his/her sentiment about your parents.
Try not to build negative feelings about in-laws and you will be able to groom a beautiful relation with each other.
Indeed, there is no formula for achieving happiness; but there are some strategies to enjoy happiness in a relationship. Let go of the ego and you will get to enjoy peace and trust; that is the secret of retaining happiness around you and to get identified as a happy couple.
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