Most articles you may have stumbled upon, detail how to fix the problems in a relationship with an introvert. However, here, let’s look at this matter in a different perspective.
Let’s unravel the personality of an introvert man to uncover the blessings of having a relationship with him.
Don’t think there’s an upside to such relationships? Read on and expand your vision.
New to the whole Introvert/Extrovert deal?
Let me give you the rundown;these are basically different types of personalities.
Extroverts are drained in solitude and energized by social interaction.
Introverts get drained by loud noises and social interactions in a social setting such as a parade, festival or party. They are energized by solitude and enjoy peaceful, quiet exercises, for instance, reading.
These definitions are gravely misinterpreted giving birth to several negative stereotypes surrounding introverts.
Introverts sound boring?
At first glance, extroverts seem to give off a more amiable vibe whereas introverts seem to have a gloomy persona.
For the vast majority, ‘introvert’ is just another word for the social outcast, while ‘extrovert’ signifies a social butterfly.
This is a popular public opinion, after all. So, it must be true, right?
In an extrovert’s world where extroverts control the narrative, introverts have been ostracized by the society. Introverts are perceived as people who hate other people.
Don’t Be So Quick To Judge
This is simply a one-dimensional perception. Introverts might not seem like the dynamic and charismatic ‘Prince Charming’ of your dreams, but their personalities are layered.
And introverts, in an attempt to emulate extroverts, have become oblivious of their own unique gifts.
You might not get to enjoy parties in the same way as with socializers, but a relationship with an introvert is rewarding in its own exceptional ways.
You just need to discover these benefits to appreciate their true value.
They always listen to you
Extroverts, in their excited states, would talk about themselves more often. But introverts take a different approach to relationships. Introverts make a genuine effort to understand others, which, they believe, is crucial for them to connect emotionally.
Have a deeper conversation
Introverts have a disdain for small talk and will try to talk about more meaningful subjects.
This fosters a deeper understanding of one another’s perspectives that leads to a happier relationship.
They think before they act (and speak)
Don’t take this for granted. This ability allows them to avoid making monumental blunders in their relationship. So they won’t be unintentionally insulting or incite arguments (without solid reason).
Are More Loyal
Introverts are inclined to ponder about their relationship which creates a greater degree of emotional intimacy with their significant other.
Prioritize you over others
Also, they tend to interact lesser with others at parties and are less eager to impress them.
They treasure the people they are emotionally invested in. They want to spend time with their lover, privately. They want to understand your thoughts, feelings and views.
They analyze and solve
Whether you’re in a rough patch in a relationship or there’s some daunting practical challenge the two of you have to face together, instead of rushing in headlong, introverts will think carefully, assess their options and make informed decisions.
Admit they’re wrong!
They introspect in an effort to detect their faults, admit them and make an effort to correct them in a relationship. That’s pretty rare, especially for men.
Are you starting to see introverts as a seductive offer? For anyone who values morality, trust,integrity and emotional intimacy, introverts are rare gems to find indeed.