It doesn’t matter if you haven’t been kissed and you’re already in your early/late 20s. All you go to do now is not worry about being left as the odd one out because you certainly are not the ‘odd’ one per se.
…BECAUSE THERE IS NO RUSH
You will find the right time and the right person to share a kiss with. It is natural to not want to kiss a random person and also very natural to not have another person approach you for a kiss – this really depends on a lot of factors: your comfort level and readiness, being the most important factors.
However, you should never compromise with your level of comfort but should instead listen to your heart and go with the flow.
Read the 7 different types of kisses you are most likely to experience and you’ll know if you can relate to any of those types which you would rather like, to fall under your first experience at kissing.
ALL PROS LEARN WITH EXPERIENCE
Don’t scold yourself for an awkward first kiss. You might not be able to give the best kiss at the first instance. The kiss might just be a bit too sloppy or a little too dry. You may stick your tongue in a little too deep than wanted, but trust me all of that is fine.
All of us learn through experience, which includes mistakes and lessons learnt out of having made those mistakes. You’ll learn better as you go.
NOT EVERYONE JUDGES
If the person likes you, for who you are, then they’ll understand you and might even want to teach you how to roll your tongue. This will help you gain trust in him/her and will also help secure an enhanced intimacy.
KEEP ‘EM SOFT AND SUPPLE
Use a good balm or a chap stick to keep at bay cracked lips. Your pout should be smooth and soft when you’re ready for a kiss.
Here’s a secret: Soft lips can make up for the technical flaws in the kiss!
ENSURE FRESH BREATH
Your mouth must smell good when you’re kissing and to this there should be no compromise! Carry mint capsules with you that you can pop in when you know there might be a chance.
TAKE SUGGESTIONS BUT FOLLOW YOUR HEART
Look, we all have different choices and separate ways of expressing ourselves. This difference stands true also, when it comes to the way you kiss your guy/girl.
Yes, considering that you’re not experienced you might opt for suggestions from your friends who are. You might want to learn the best technique to a perfect kiss, but believe me you, your best kiss will come naturally to you. You don’t need to force it. Just go with the flow and do whatEVER suits you.
USE YOUR HANDS
Kissing can be made kickier when you accompany a mouth-to-mouth or a lip-to-lip with the faint stroking of the face, squeezing of a body part, grabbing of the back of his/her head, and stuff like that. Read Where to place your hands while kissing to understand this better. Your hands though very indirectly, play a huge role in adding spunk and flavour to your kisses.
Tips are just to help you understand yourself better and discover the terrific kisser hidden right within you!