A perfect sex is always a desire for all of us. No one wants to feel undone at the end of a love making session. While having sex, the onus of its success is on both the participants. But today let us have a check on the list of things that men go wrong that turns off women.
When they can’t find the clitoris
Yeah boys! That indeed is a turn off. It is okay to juggle and lose your way one or two times but you cannot struggle all the time. Some tend to go wrong with the spot even after finding the clit and that instantly is turn off as the arousal also fades away with it.
Pounding the pussy
Striking those fingers in and out and almost jamming the pussy is nothing less than a torture for women and most men fail to understand that. They assume that the harder they do this, the more pleasurable it is for women. No! It should be understood that there is a vast difference between fingers and a dick. By now you should have mastered how to finger a pussy gently and fondly.
FORCING for Anal sex
Some women may enjoy swinging it both ways but before you know it firmly one mustn’t try to compel a woman to try anal. Anal penetration can be fun and erotic but dragging your partner forcefully into it is certainly less manly.
If women can spend oodles of time to wave off their facial hair and get a bikini wax done, then men too must take accountability to get their genitals manicured. Those pubic hair down overgrown and untrimmed is undeniably not cherished by women and turns them off at sight.
When they climax very early
Nothing turns off a woman as likely as a man not lasting longer on bed. A woman would drool over a man who can give her a pleasurable pounding session that lasts a clock longer and would choose him over someone who just cannot give her enough friction.
Not helping her reach orgasm
Okay you have ejaculated early but does that mean your task is done? Hell no! You have to help her climax too. When a man simply dozes off or stops performing once he has cum that turns off a woman and makes her feel bad too. It is selfish to not help her masturbate or indulge in some fingering and clit rubbing if you haven’t climaxed together.
Not taking a shower before sex
Women feel taken for granted and less affectionate when men are too casual. For instance, if a man doesn’t bother to take a bath or brush his teeth before having sex, it is a major turn off.
Copying things that are online
Experimenting is always fun but copying stuff that you have seen online isn’t always a good idea. The sensual scenes in the movies involve paid actors and a number of cuts and retakes. Hence, recreating online content in the bedroom doesn’t really works. It is kind of forceful and artificial and burns the natural drive in women.
Above mentioned things are funny and tricky but everything is true. Therefore, I think now men shouldn’t find an excuse to disappoint women next time and should keep these aspects in mind.
Ashwathi is an enthusiastic traveller and dancer with a passion for movies and music. Hailing from an Army background, she considers herself fortunate enough to have experienced the diverse cultures that India boasts of. She is a graduate in Journalism and Mass Communications and has worked in print, radio and television.