I want to have Anal sex with my boyfriend but I am confused whether it is safe or not. Need help!

Question

I am a 21 year old and I have been dating my boyfriend for more than two years now. We have had sex a lot of times but recently he asked me for anal sex. I too have been contemplating about anal sex for quite some time before he asked. But I haven't been able to decide because of contradictory information available online. I even  discussed it with few of my friends but still that didn't turn out to be fruitful, in fact, I got even more confused as my friends are giving me different opinions. One of my friend said that anal sex is unnatural and that has got me terrified. I also happened to read this piece somewhere which said that our country does not approve of it as it is against the nature. I really need help. Anal sex has always enticed me in porns but now with so much confusion I am unsure whether I should say yes to my boyfriend. Please help! If all the information attained is false and Anal sex is safe then please also tell me anything specific I need to prepare.

Answer 1

First and foremost, Anal sex is normal and safe. It is just another variation of the normal intercourse. This even mentioned in Kamasutra. Vaginal sex and anal sex can may give you equal pleasure also. As, it is the same nerve that causes sensations to both genital and anal areas. You should go ahead and say yes. Your boyfriend will have more freedom to rub and stimulate your clittoris while having anal sex which can be very pleasing for you. The only piece of advice I would give you with the preparation is use a lubricated condom while having anal intercourse. 

Answer 2

Anal sex is cool if you use a lot of lubricant. Also make sure you use separate condoms for anal and vaginal sex.

Answer 3

totally ok, but always you need to use condoms! and enough lubricant!!

Answer 4

Are you serious? Why won't it be safe? Do it slow initially and use lubricant. Like a lot of lube. If that gives you an orgasm go for it. ;)

Answer 5

Anal sex is NOT safe.period.just don't do it,unless u want to get admitted to the hospital with a severe case of piles.

Comments

well that is not entirely true, you can use condoms and enough lubricant and it can be ok, but you always need to be super careful!

Answer 6

I think it is totally ok, but you have to be careful!

Answer 7

Use a condom and make sure you don't use the same condom for both anal and vaginal sex. There are chances of infections.