Don’t worry my darlings. Here’s a little bit of guidance to helping you get your crush to give you the attention you desire. First of all, remember to be the best version of you and wear your identity with confidence.
DRESS YOUR BEST
You will indefinitely get noticed and draw attention when you’re dressed to stand out, (of course sticking by the office regulations) try and look well groomed, attractive and neat.
Also make sure to carry whatever you are wearing with confidence. Confidence makes up for less than over-the-top attire.
ASK THEM FOR THEIR ADVICE OR OFFER TO HELP THEM WITH WORK
When you ask your crush for their advice, you are invariably making them feel as though you are superior and this does a lot to massage a man’s ego, making them feel as though you value them.
Men always like to come of help, driven by their protective instincts and if you are someone who can trigger these instincts in them. So they will automatically be drawn towards you.
ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS
Appreciate them for something they did well. It will give them a boost in confidence and the fact that you showed appreciation for their effort will increase their respect for you.
The moment you can get your crush to respect you after realising how attractive you are, you’ve paved the way to success!
BE EFFICIENT IN WHAT YOU DO
Don’t slack at work. Look attractive and busy. Just looking all decked up while you sit on your desk watching YouTube videos or surfing through Facebook won’t get him to notice you.
You must walk around a lot. Have your name called out, appear in group discussions, produce presentations and complete your work on time. This shall not only lead to your crush into noticing you but also your employer. So it’s a bonus.
ENGAGE IN SUBTLE FLIRTING
Eye contact for a woman is very important. I can’t emphasise on how important it exactly is when you are looking to flirt with a man. It is as important a tactic for men to resort to, but men can sometimes go beyond the subtleties, which don’t look so flattering when attempted by women.
Let’s say for instance, a man who has a crush on you may want to make you a cup of coffee, offer to buy you lunch and so on while when a woman does it, the man more often than not learns to take the woman for granted and doesn’t feel the need to chase her any longer.
You got to stimulate the hunter instinct in him. Tease but don’t give in. So make sure to stare a bit longer into his eyes when crossing paths and don’t forget to conclude the stares with a soft smile. The smile should be a little confusing and yet genuine.
WALK BY THEIR DESK IN FREQUENT INTERVALS
To get noticed you must be physically around. So when you decide to get yourself a cup of tea or decide to visit the loo, try and take the route where you will have to pass his desk.
Now that you’re passing by his desk, walk your best walk. Look sexy and yet graceful. Make sure your walk doesn’t seem too bold to draw others’ attention. All I am saying is don’t let it be casual. Be a little conscious about your strut.
MAKE THEM LAUGH
This is one of the most endearing qualities possessed by both men and women. An individual, who has a good sense of humour and can make another crack up, is often too charming to ignore.
You will unavoidably draw his attention if you can make him laugh. Be funny, imitate him, imitate others, and use sarcasm and so on. Being able to laugh in your presence is equal to feeling happy and someone who feels happy around you will want to be around you more often.
WEAR A SMILE OFTEN
Be cheerful and happy. You warm personality will surely attract your crush towards you. Especially on one of his bad days if you treat you him with a broad smile to make his day, you are going to gain entry into his good books. We love people who make us happy and being around cheerful individuals, help us feel happier because we draw positive vibes from them.
INTERACT WITH THEM AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
Try and be a part of the project group which has him in it as one of the group members. If business trips are being organized, try and be in the team of which he is a part and go for these trips together.
Business trips and conferences are a great way to connect because you will have some time together apart from when you’re working. It is always easier to interact on a personal level when you’re away from work and have time to kill and you have enough time to kill on official trips like these.
SUGGEST AFTER WORK DRINKS
Once, and after, you have built a sort of a rapport with him on having worked together for quite some time now, you could ask if he’d like to accompany you to a bar across the street or even further on Friday after work.
You could say your friends are out of town or busy and you have wanted to unwind for two weeks now, so ask your crush if he’d like to give you company. I don’t think he would respond with a ‘no’.
TREAT HIM TO SOMETHING YOU’VE COOKED/BAKED
They say that “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” and believe it or not, it stands true even to this day. He will inevitably develop a liking towards you if you feed him something you’ve cooked by yourself.
He will respect your effort and admire you for your skills, at the same time. So it is a win-win.
ASK IF THEY WANT TO GRAB LUNCH TOGETHER
Ask them casually, to accompany you to lunch, after the both of you have been working like crazy and haven’t eaten for too long. As your crush if he would like to go to a nice restaurant and hog on to some spicy Chinese food to fill the tummy. Use this time to your advantage to show him how awesome and interesting you are.
INVITE HIM TO A DANCE SHOW OR MUSIC CONCERT YOU’RE A PART OF
Along with the other few colleagues you are close to, invite your crush to any concert you have taken part in; anything that is going to promote your talent, either in acting, dancing or playing an instrument.
This is a way to attract him, showing him how interesting and talented a person you are.
These are a few tips that you could take into account in order to get noticed by your crush. Happy attracting!