A relationship needs sweet gestures if you want it to grow and survive for long. Only when you can make your partner feel happy and needed will be feel appreciated and desired in the relationship. In fact, both of you should be able to make time to express your gratitude towards the person you are with. When you wish to do something for your man, you truly care about how he feels with you. Well, that is really sweet of you to make him feel so good. What will keep your relationship going is when both of you feel equally good with each other. While you might want to do everything possible for you to keep your man happy, make sure you are a little realistic in understanding whether both of your are on the same page in the relationship. Here are a few things that you can do to make your man feel happy everyday:
Take care of his needs
Sometimes guys can get very secretive about what they need or what they expect from you. While you might just overlook that because he doesn’t tell you anything, you should take care and be sensitive to what makes him happy. This may be something material or even emotional. [Read: 6 Ways to have an absolutely happy relationship]
Enhance what he likes in you
Remember what he liked in you first? He must have complimented you about things that he adores about you. This may be the way you talk, your laughter, your eyes, your hair or may just the whole package. Don’t overlook them just because you have spent or been with him for a long time and you expect him to be okay with however you are now. Adding spark to your relationship to keep him happy means you have to take care of what pleases his eyes too.
Make him feel needed
If you are someone who likes making your man jealous by using his insecure nature to your benefit, then your man will never be happy with you. To make your man feel really happy, you should be able to show it him that he matters so much to you and no body can take the place in your heart that you have sealed for him. While you may expect him to know that by default, he still needs these assurances sometimes to have confidence in the relationship.
Touch him more often
Your lover will always feel great when you touch him especially when he least expects it from you. Guys really love it when you hug and cuddle with them. They love these sweet moments that you create out of the blue. While you might love to engage in hot, dirty sex whenever you want, make sure you make him feel oh-so-desirable when you are in public as well. So, here goes a thumbs up for PDA! [Read: Is too much of Public Display of Affection (PDA) Okay?]
Make sure he knows about your schedule
You may have a busy schedule some day and have to cancel a plan that you had with him. Make sure that you have him covered by letting out the reasons as to what kept you busy, This doesn’t make you answerable or anything of that sort but you only work to build that trust and confidence in him about your whereabouts. This way you have him feeling great because he is aware and has no reason to mistrust you. You need to be able to have mental peace when you want to make your man happier. [Read: How to manage time in your busy schedule?]
Show that he is your priority
You may have too many things happening at the same time that needs your attention. But make time for your partner no matter what. Even when there are other guys around, you should have your arms around him and make others jealous of the love that you have for him. Both of your should be important for each other even if there are other priorities that you need to take care of.
Make your sex life exciting
Your sex life should never take a back seat when you wish to keep your man happy. Try and experiment with positions that he has been willing to experience. You might actually start liking something that you were previously scared to try out. It’s okay if you have inhibitions. He will understand if his feelings for your are real. But do remember that guys do love an active woman in bed who can make them go wet with pleasure. Also, learn to surrender and let him take control. He will love to exhibit his masculinity when he is making love to you. [Read: 5 Ways to reboot sex life after tiring work days!]
Have healthy fights
Misunderstandings and fights are quite normal in a relationship. But you need to learn how to behave with your partner in case you forget to stay sane. It is okay to show him how you feel and what makes you mad but stay respectful of him throughout the fight. After all, you love him and he isn’t your enemy who you are waiting to destroy. [Read: 13 Adorable sayings to calm a fight with your beloved!]