It is scientifically proven that women are usually more attracted to men who are already taken. Are you in the environs of one of these women who have been smitten by your man?
Here are a few signs that you are!
THIS WOMAN TRIES TO BE YOUR MAN’S BEST FRIEND BUT NOT YOURS
C’mon! Your man’s best friend has to be your buddy too. A best friend is someone who you share one of the closest bonds with and often they could be considered as part of the family and not someone you hang around with in exclusion. Also one of the most significant things is that, best friends often form at a young age and not in mid life. So the term ‘best friend’ could be a disguise for something else.
SHE COMPLIMENTS HIM MORE THAN NECESSARY
While it is natural to have your charming boyfriend/husband be showered with compliments often, it isn’t normal to have him receive excessive compliments, frequently from the same source. It is a definite sign of attraction that you need to take note of.
SHE TAKES MUCH INTEREST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Is she taking too much of an interest in your relationship or is she interfering too much for your comfort. Do not ignore these subtle signs that could lead to troublesome situations in the future. She might be showing too much interest to find out details about your relationship because she wants to know both yours and your man’s strengths and weaknesses to use them to her advantage. Don’t allow her undue access to your relationship.
SHE NEVER SAYS NO TO HIM
When would you hesitate to say no to somebody’s face? Either when you’re in love or when you’re worried about disappointing them or resolute to please them, right? Exactly! In a normal relationship it is natural to say no when something is inconvenient for you.
THEY CHAT A LOT ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Does your man not have the habit of chatting on IM apps and yet you find him communicating with a specific woman, from college, workplace or somewhere else, he calls his friend, a bit too frequently? You should confront him.
SHE CALLS WHEN SHE KNOWS YOU WON’T BE AROUND
Well now this is too obvious a sign to ignore. Have you ever caught your man talking or chatting with this woman at a time when you usually don’t stay around or awake to keep track? Chatting in your presence can still be overlooked, provided your man has a habit of chatting online with all his friends, but interacting at a time when they know that it wouldn’t come to your notice or knowledge is almost like playing behind your back.
SHE IS TOO NEEDY OF HIM
Okay, so a woman who constantly needs just your guy to book a cab for her, take her out when she is lonely, help her with her furniture shopping, fix the light bulb in her drawing room, and all other sorts of things, then what she is really looking for is to spend some quality time with him ALONE by making him feel wanted and satisfying his male ego. Had she wanted to do away with her loneliness, she wouldn’t call over your man all the time knowing that he isn’t single but has the responsibility of a relationship, but rather other friends or single men she could get together with.
SHE IS EXCESSIVELY SWEET TO PEOPLE WHO MATTER TO HIM
Be it his friends or his family, her motto is to befriend them all to rise in his eyes and gain his confidence. Any individual will get influenced to a certain extent by people they are closest to and trust the most; hence in impressing those people this woman has her motive of entering his heart.
SHE PROVIDES HIM A SHOULDER TO CRY ON
Were you busy the other day when your man called you up to share how upset he felt as a consequence of what happened at office and you call back at a convenient time only to find him busy, and when you ask, he tells you he was talking to her? This is a bad sign, girl. Your man is emotionally depending on this woman who maybe slyly laying the ground for their togetherness by trying to take your place in his life.
HE IS MADE TO FEEL THAT HE OWES HER A LOT
She is almost like a second girlfriend/wife to your man, who stays around whenever he needs emotional support, regarding your relationship, familial issues, and matters relating to workplace or friends’ behaviours. However when you tell your man how her attitude towards him makes you feel uncomfortable, he instead of approaching her normally with the issue and seeking a mutual understanding defends her. If he hesitates even when all you ask of him is to cut down on the intimacy and not sever ties altogether, then know that he is emotionally dependent on this woman, who functions as a second option for him.
Follow your instincts and take measures to express your discomfort to your man and if this doesn’t help then know that you would do better by opting out of a relationship which is rather one sided or in which you feel no security.