If there is one thing all women can agree on, it’s that we all want a sensitive man. Unless you are an exception to that expectation, you have found the man on your dreams in this Cancerian. But is he all that you hoped he would be? Think again! Ruled by the lunar movements men of this sign have a variety of personalities just like the moon does each day. One day he will shine like a full moon, the other he would be dark like the moonless sky. But through it all, you will find a man worth every trouble. Ready for the journey of a lifetime? Fasten your seat belts as we take you through tips on how to attract a Cancer man.
It must be nerve-wracking to be in love with a Cancer man. One day it seems like he is the one for you. The other, you can’t even recognize the man. It’s a blessing to be in love with a Cancer because no other zodiac sign understands love the way they do. But this is a blessing and a curse. Because with extreme love comes jealousy and possessiveness in equally strong amounts.
So, why did you fall in love with this guy? The reason is that you met him on one of his good days (was it on a full moon?). The bad days with a Cancer man are equally harsh and the secret to his heart lies in striking a balance between the two. Can you love him even when he projects every quality that you cannot seem to recognize? If you want the rose, you will have to put up with the thorns.
How to Make a Perfect First Impression?
The first thing you need to know about this man is that he is very organized. Being organized also includes being neat and clean in this case. So, if you think he will be attracted to you if you are in a disheveled state because of too much tequila, you have already lost your shot. Make sure that you are not all over the place when you meet him. You need to be in control of the basics.
Dress to impress, but don’t wear something that might embarrass him and you. he doesn’t want you to be dressed in a very conservative style, nor does he want you to be loud. Be chic, be classy, and he will most definitely pay attention to you, even if you are in a crowd. If you put your faith in astrology, then wear a silver piece of jewelry. Pay attention to him. He doesn’t show it but a cancer man is very sensitive to these things. If you single him out in a crowd, he will be happy as a clam. The result is that he would reciprocate that attention.
What Attracts His Attention Towards a Woman?
Remember, you need to make the first move with this one. All the preparation we did above was only to not have him avoid you. If you gather the courage to talk to him, ensure that you don’t let your demons show. The cancer man is a man of values. He won’t mind your vices if you are a friend. But that is where he will limit you to being a friend. If you want to go to the next level, be careful what you talk about. It wouldn’t hurt to invoke the mommy card. He is extremely close to his mother, knowing that you are too, will only attract him to you further.
Things like, “You know what my mother says?” or “my mom always tells me” with a positive follow-up will get you in the Cancer man’s good graces. Most importantly, give him his space and time. If you force him into anything, he will hide inside his shell. Make sure you put your attentive and caring side on display. Wonder why he is so close to his mother? Because he knows her to be the most caring and attentive woman in the world.
Taking the Conversation Forward
Have you moved on to meeting more frequently now? Then it’s time to up your game. Simply talking about your mother won’t help any longer. You need to understand him now. Begin by understanding the mood swings. As a lunar sign, the cancer man has a vast display of moods that you will have to put up with. None of these is him, so be very careful with how you react. Even if the moodiness is unreasonable, don’t tell him that.
Next comes supporting his dreams. Being the emotional and sensitive man that he is it is no surprise that even the most constructive of criticism can get him down. Even if you want to convey something negative, do it as diplomatically as possible. You look at him and probably think, can this guy have a care in this world? he does actually, he does a lot. Even though the cancer man listens to the troubles of all his friends, he doesn’t open up to anyone about his own problems. The final and most important step in attracting him is to make him trust you.
How to Text with a Cancer Man?
Step one in this regard is to be straightforward. He doesn’t want you to spin stories or keep having the same conversations again and again like a broken record. Next, appeal to his emotional side. Not your emotions, his emotions. Send him genuine compliments after a date or after something that he did for you. Showing love in a non-cheesy, mature way that uplifts his spirits will work in your favor.
Cancer men tend to read between the lines even when there is no space to do so. Make sure that you state clearly the intent of your message. Any detail left out will wreck his mind. Don’t try to be mysterious or leave things to his interpretation. Stay up-to-date with all the information about his family. If he told you that his mother’s birthday is next week, make sure you send your best wishes. It is important that you be interested in his family, especially the women in his life.
How do You Get Him to Chase You?
Now, the cancer man is interested in you. The obvious next step is to get him to chase you. the first step in this is to be very attentive and caring towards him. It’s not that he wants to be babied (at least that’s what he thinks) but this is the number one quality he will chase a woman for. Next is to be on very good terms with his mother. He worships his mother and you might never be able to replace that. So, the best thing for you to do is to get his mother’s approval. That is a seal of finesse on you, which he cannot let go. Put your feminine side on full display.
No, the cancer man is not one to have gender stereotypes, but he does love a woman who knows it all. He respects a woman who can do anything with perfection, just like his mum. So, invite him over to your place for dinner. Cook a sumptuous meal and make sure that your house is spick and span. Most importantly, get him to open up to you. He doesn’t do that often. So, if he finds in you the person he can trust, he will most certainly chase you.
How to Make the Cancer Man Fall in Love with You?
When all is said and done, only love remains. Want to turn this relationship of liking to love? Then keep these things in mind. Be his aphrodisiac in bed. Love and sex are the same things for the cancer man. So, let him be spoiled in bed. Be feminine and submissive. Say the right words. If the sex is great, you have taken the first step to love. Be independent. He doesn’t mind you being emotionally dependent on him. But if you depend on him materially, then he cannot love you. Have your own identity. The cancer man is not looking for a woman who will tag along wherever he goes. He appreciates women who have a life of their own. So, plan for the future.
Another thing to keep in mind is that you don’t have to be a yes man around him. While it might work sometimes, he wants a woman who can stand her own. Learn to say NO to him. You might feel like you are pushing him away, but actually, he is turned on. Finally, be honest with him. It doesn’t matter whether it is good or bad. He hates it when people play games with him. You have all of these qualities down and this man will love you till his last breath. That has a magic that not everyone can experience.
