Are you looking for the warm embrace of the man you love to see you through old age? Redirect to the blogs on attracting Cancer, Taurus or Libra man. But if you want someone who will live and let live, you have come to the right place. How could that gentleman, that epitome of social courtesy, be a vagabond? Well, spend some more time with him and you’ll see that he isn’t one but 2 different people in the same body. How do you then adjust with this dual personality crowd pleaser? I’ll now reveal to you my secrets to attract a Gemini Man.
What is the Gemini Man’s Personality like?
“I could tell you my adventures- beginning from this morning-“
“At least I knew who I was when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.”
He is the life and soul of the party and you can’t deny that. Unlike Aries and Leo men, he doesn’t just want to be the center of attention. He wants to have fun and make others enjoy too, while he basks in their combined admiration for him. You fell for the charm too, didn’t you? But this same man probably came off as the rudest or most detached person you have ever met in the week following your first meeting.
How can that be? Was it a façade? Before you can figure out the answers to those questions, he’ll be back to his charming self. With no recollection of that dark period you just described. Loving a Gemini is a rollercoaster ride. You will never know what’s going to come next but the periods of happiness are worth working for. Should I book you for the first seat on the train?
How to Make the Perfect First Impression?
If you have made up your mind about this man, then act fast. The Gemini man doesn’t stick around the single status for long. The more you delay, the faster he’ll find a replacement. Start by trying to get a one-on-one with him. You will rarely find a Gemini man who isn’t surrounded by people. So, work your way to find some privacy with him. Only then will you have his undivided attention. Don’t pretend to be someone you are not. With all that duality inside of him, he’s already sick of people being two-faced. He needs you to be who you are and not who you think he wants you to be.
Geminis are always ready to have a conversation. Bring up his favorite subjects to have a conversation. People who share common interests are fascinating for everyone. Show off your own brand of uniqueness. He is looking for the rarest of rare. Each one of us has their own uniqueness that sets us apart from the crowd. Play that to your strength. Wear something seductive that conveys your intentions to him. He hates conservative dressing and loves the color orange. So, that’s something you need to work with.
How to Attract a Gemini Man Through Text?
Texting a Gemini man is an ordeal. Especially if you are not yet in a serious relationship with him. The thing is, he isn’t good at it anyway. But if you are still in the initial phases of trying to attract him, he doesn’t feel obligated to respond to you. Sounds snobbish, but that is just part of who he is. Yet, texting is a form of conversation and it can be used to impress him.
So, as and when you have to text, keep these things in mind. Given that he is a Brainiac, he won’t be able to stay away from talk about politics, history or the news. Your knowledge and interest will make him engage even more on these subjects. Flirty texts always get a response from the Gemini man. Excitement is something he can never resist and flirtation keeps him in a good mood.
He needs to know that you are not a clingy person, and appreciate freedom be it your own or someone else’s. So, talk about the things you did without him. Let him know that being in a relationship with you will not be bondage. He will have one or the other creative interests. If you don’t have any, then talk about his creative endeavors. Show interest in his creative interests and that should get him talking. Most importantly, don’t be clingy. Don’t expect him to respond all the time. When he doesn’t, don’t demand an explanation. He’ll run away faster than you could figure out what went wrong.
How to Flirt with a Gemini Man?
We have talked about flirtation enough for you to figure out that it is a key aspect of getting his attention. I also expressed the importance of being unique. So, here are a few tips on how to flirt with a Gemini man to get his attention:
Never be shy of flirting. He takes it as a compliment. More importantly, he loves attention and flirting is a sure way of giving him this attention. Intelligence impresses the Gemini. Dish out your knowledge on whatever topic you are discussing. Find out about his topics of interest and have more to say about them. Use references from these topics to flirt.
An ambitious and bold woman has a charm for the Gemini men. Don’t be scared of coming off as too masculine for his liking. This is one of the biggest turn-ons for him. He doesn’t like shy flirtations. Passionate debates turn him on. Don’t fight about things, but maneuver these debates into something that becomes incredibly sexy. Appeal to his creative side. If you have an artistic inclination, don’t forget to use that to your advantage. Don’t most romantic movies show the female protagonist as a sensual artist?
How to Get a Gemini Man to Chase You?
Do anything, but never chase a Gemini man. He will assume that you have nothing better for you to do and hence, drop the idea of a relationship with you right away. The key to making him chase you is to make him realize that you are the only one. In other words, you have to make the Gemini man miss you. Here’s how you do that.
Bondage and dependence are the two words he hates most. So, he needs to know that you have a very active life. Stay busy and don’t waste too much time on him. He’ll know you are not going to pin him down. But don’t take it to the extent where he feels like you are not interested. To avoid that, send gifts to him. Gentle reminders that you are still in his thought. This reaffirms that you don’t need constant contact to be in love with him. Don’t lift the veil of mystery. You don’t have to be someone you are not, but don’t spill all your secrets at once either. Keep him interested in finding out more about you.
Give him his space and time. The degree of space and time that a Gemini needs differs from one Gemini to the next. But they all need it and you should learn to live with it. Other gentle reminders like your perfume sprayed on his pillow, that reminds him of you can work wonders. You have to stay in his thoughts, so, don’t vanish completely.
How to Make Him Fall in Love with You?
This is the hardest job there is. If the Gemini man feels like you forced him into falling in love with you, he’ll push back. All that progress will go down the drain. So, follow these steps to make him come to you. Planning for the future never works. He is aware of his duality and would never bet on anything. If you seem like someone who has already decided what to name her kids, he won’t stay for long. Live in the moment and plan only for the immediate future.
He hates predictability. If you want him to love you, you will have to keep him guessing. That mystery, uncertainty, and rush that comes with it will keep him around for a long time. Don’t be prudish with sex. Like all other things, Gemini likes to keep the excitement up. Always be up for trying new things and experimenting in the bed.
Learn to take risks. It’s difficult keeping the excitement and thrill of going in a relationship. The easiest way to manage that is to keep taking risks and trying new things. After all, falling in love with this man was a risk in itself.