So, you have fallen in love with the wild, untameable spirit? Lucky you! For you are in for adventures the likes of which only few will see. But don’t stop to tie your shoelaces or else he’ll be far gone before you could start running again. But if you stop, he might not wait for you. Does that sound like the kind of dilemma you are facing with your Sagittarius crush? We’ll reveal you how to date a Sagittarius man and make him fall for you! As untameable as he might seem, you can certainly rein in this beast.
Sagittarius Man in a Relationship
If you are dating him then you must be really special. Men of this zodiac sign don’t easily tie themselves to someone. Essentially what a Sagittarius man wants is a partner in crime. He needs someone who can keep him company in his adventures. You need to be really energetic to keep up with that. Like other zodiac signs, Sagittarians don’t believe in taking things slow. They will jump from meeting you for the first time to dating you. If you two get along well, you’ll be walking down the aisle soon.
Another thing to know about him is that he never compromises with his freedom. Unless it’s an emergency and that too should happen rarely. The bright side is that he won’t pry on your freedom either. He loves just like he lives: boldly and freely. He wouldn’t hesitate to let you know how much he cares for you. So long as you don’t waste his time with drama, he will be yours truly.
But know this, that he is in it for the romance, and there will be lots of that. So, are you ready to write an adventure of your own? Don’t leave this man’s side.
First Date with a Sagittarius Man
When planning your first date with him, know that no plan is ever solid with them. You will go having something planned and do something completely different. He’s extremely spontaneous. Whatever catches his fancy will attract him. So, keep up your pace. Also, if you are the one deciding where to go, make sure you go to someplace to have fun. Dining at a fancy restaurant or sitting by the beach and drinking champagne is not his idea of an ideal date. Sorry, Leo women. He would much rather go to the amusement park, which would be perfect if you are an Aries woman.
Plan one activity to start with and keep the rest of the time open. If it’s a day date, wear something that helps you move around easily. Since there will be a lot of activity, you don’t want to hold back because of what you are wearing. Peach, light purple, or beige are the colors you want to go for. For an evening date wear something sexy. The more heads you turn the better for his ego. So, wear what you know is going to make you look gorgeous.
He’s just very curious about everything around him. So, he will seem super interested in you. But don’t let his interest in you fool you. This might make you slack and that is where you lose him. Another thing that will help you score some points is humor. He loves a woman who can make him laugh. If you aren’t good at that, then laugh when he cracks a joke. That ought to do the trick.
How to Treat a Sagittarius Man
If you are past the first date and are going for a second, start planning for the long haul. It is easy to lose the Sagittarius man’s interest. So, you need to stay in the game at all times. Sometimes you will have to be a philosopher. He doesn’t just travel so much or do so many new things for fun. He understands the deeper meaning of things and so should you. Don’t stop at that, challenge him. He doesn’t like a person who just gives in. Debate, explore, and make him work to prove himself to you.
Don’t force him to commit. You cannot hammer into him, that which he won’t do naturally. So, allow him to feel the commitment towards you. Don’t rush him into it. Allow him to have his freedom. If sometimes he wants to do things with his friends and without you, don’t be overbearing about it. He might love you and still love his freedom. Don’t get in the way of that.
Don’t drop hints. If you think that is what being mysterious to him means, then you couldn’t be more wrong. Be direct with him. That’s how he likes it.
Are Sagittarius Men Jealous and Possessive?
Given how carefree and easy going he is, it’s hard to think of him as a jealous man. You are right, he isn’t usually jealous. But when those rare moments do arrive, you should know how to handle them. A Sagittarius man will get jealous only because of his own insecurities. So, it is important that you know what they are and not let it get in the way of your relationship. If you sense that he is getting overly possessive, talk to him about what bothers you. He likes to have direct conversations. Putting your concerns across will help ease his mind too.
In case he is jealous of the people you hang out with, have him interact with them more. His curiosity about the other person will be enough to change his opinion. If he still does not see eye to eye with them, then you need to cut that man off. Don’t ignore him during his period of jealousy. You will have to work with him to work this out. So, make sure you give him the attention that he needs.
Shower him with love and affection. This ought to reaffirm his belief you are interested only in him. Thus, he has no reason to be jealous or possessive.
Signs a Sagittarius Man Loves You
It wouldn’t be long before the Sagittarius man will start showing signs he loves you. What you need then is an eye out for them. He will be honest with you about everything. Now, he is usually very blunt and direct about things. But you will start hearing him say things that he would never have admitted to anyone else. He will shower you with compliments. The compliments of a Sagittarius man are a sign of interest. He doesn’t hand out compliments that often. So, if it has become a regular thing, then he must really like you.
He wants you to be a part of all his plans. Even his best friends don’t get invited to everything. If he wants you on board, then that means he must really love your presence. He wouldn’t seem to be in a rush to leave you behind. He’s not the most patient of signs. So, if he’s ready to cut you some slack then you must mean something to him.
If he texts you or connects with you online, he’s into you. Sagittarius men don’t believe in texting. So, you must be really special to him for him to opt for this mode of communication to be with you.