I am a 23 old woman. There is this person I have known for quite a while and whom I enjoy spending time with. We respect each other but the times when he tries to get close to me, (kisses, hugs, brushing of his hands against mine) I feel uncomfortable and sometimes even irritated. I enjoy his company and like him as a person but I am not ready to take things any further. I don't want to give him the wrong vibes and push him away. But it is just that unless I feel love for him I cant treat him like I would treat my boyfriend. I don't want to fake a passionate kiss.