Marriage is one of the oldest, most defining institutions of our society. It is also one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever make. So, it is only natural that one would want to marry the right man. For he will be with you till the last breath. Till death do us part. But marrying a Scorpio man is no easy job. Right from the time, your heart went to him, getting him to reciprocate has been tough. Taking him to the next step is all the more difficult. But if you have your heart set on him then don’t back down. For all the effort will be worth it. I have for you some tips to help you tame the Scorpion:
Understanding the Scorpio Husband
There’s a lot that the men born under this zodiac sign have to deal with before deciding to settle down. So, usually, the right age for them to get married is after their 30s. But when they do decide to settle down they are for it. Passion is not something your marriage will ever lack. Everything that a Scorpio does, he does with passion.
He will be the most tender, respectful and caring husband in all the zodiacs. But that is if you know how to manipulate him when you disagree with his decisions. He has to be the leading authority in the marriage. So, if you think he’ll understand when you don’t sugar-coat his faults, you are wrong. Learn to frame criticism tactfully.
He will be a wonderful father to your children. Children raised by Scorpio father seldom fail in life. Because their fathers have prepared them for the outside world. He will be hard on the kids. The more sensitive souls will become introverted. But that is what you are there for, isn’t it? But if he has your attention, it will be difficult to think of anyone else. Because like Linda Goodman says, “The magnetism of Scorpio men is almost tangible”.
Signs That He Is in Love
The decision to get married cannot and should not be taken in the absence of love. So, you need to be certain that he is in love with you before going any further with your marriage plans. Thankfully astrology doesn’t fail to decipher that for us either. If he’s going out of his way to make you happy, that’s a sign of his love for you. He is a flirt who knows he can get any woman’s attention. But when he falls in love, he falls hard. If he is going above and beyond the call of duty for you, that’s a sign.
You will notice that he has grown quieter in public. That is because a Scorpio man in love can become shy. His love for you is overwhelming. Even the most extroverted men of this zodiac can turn shy. If you are lucky, he will confess his love for you. He is a strong confident man who will not shy away from happiness. Also, the mystery of whether you love him or not is killing him. So, he will be straight about it and tell you.
He might even act strangely. He’s probably confused about what to do. Because even if he’s certain about his feeling he might not be sure about yours. So, he’ll get moody. Angry and then cold. Will call and texts a million times and then go silent altogether. Last but not the least, he’ll be your knight in shining armor. Ready to help his fair lady with all her needs. He’ll offer his help in everything you are doing. His craving for you will increase if you are a strong, independent woman.
How to Get a Scorpio Man to Marry You?
The Scorpio doesn’t trust easily. Neither does he jump into things he isn’t sure about. So, if you want to marry him, you will need to convince him that it is the right thing to do. That can be done by making sure he thinks of you as the only woman worth the risk. Let it be known that you are driven by your goals. He needs a successful woman in his life. Your strive for excellence will appeal to him.
Loyalty is the most important quality he is looking for. Make sure he knows you are loyal. This isn’t just a lack of infidelity. But also, your standing up for him no matter what. Your loyalty towards your work and other aspects of your life also count here. Being a homemaker is an important part of being a wife. So, while he does want a successful working woman, he also wants a successful homemaker. Show that you can take care of the family just as you take care of your work.
What he cannot stand is being nagged and pressurized. Don’t try to rush him into anything. If you keep troubling him about wanting to get married, he won’t do it. Finally, make sure that your relationship is peaceful and harmonious. A drama-filled, emotionally-charged relationship is not something he wants for eternity. He needs his life to be calm and peaceful. Give him that.
Scorpio Man’s Weakness in Love
You are planning to marry the most amazing man ever. You know his strengths already. After all, that is why you decided to marry him. But if you are thinking about marrying him, you should be well-equipped to handle him at his lowest. He can be ruthlessly vengeful. The Scorpion stings. It’s in their nature. They will be loyal and trustworthy and everything you are looking for in a man. But if you betray him, he can cut you off forever. And that is getting off easy.
He will also be very controlling. He loves you but that doesn’t mean he trusts you to make the right choice. Every woman married to a Scorpio man knows that he wants the earth to spin at his command. Since he can’t do that, he controls those around him. Which will be hard if you are a Leo, Aries or a Sagittarius woman. He is a jealous husband and partner. His jealousy can get so out of hand that it might suffocate you. It will be best that you are mindful of everything in the company of the opposite sex. Or your life will be difficult.
His stubborn nature will drive you mad too. Once he sets his mind on something he can be worse than a child. If you try to reason with him things will only get worse. So, manipulate him. But that can backfire because he’s very manipulative too. He will do anything to get his way. So, you will need to be sure about what is wrong and what is right. Gaining a control over his weaknesses and yours will help you avoid any problems in your marriage with the Scorpio man.
How to Get a Scorpio Man to Propose?
You have planted the idea of marriage. Now how do you get him to propose? Well, firstly, don’t make your intentions obvious. That is, don’t push him for marriage. Talk about the prospect sometimes. But don’t nag him about it. Instead, have as much fun with him as you can. Plan dates to fun places, like, movies, amusement parks, trips. Anything that makes the two of you enjoy each other’s company.
Never let the atmosphere grow despair. Positivity enchants him. Being a realist is one thing. Being a spoil-sport is another. Choose wisely which one you would rather be. It is only natural that the two of you will fight at some point. But there will be times when you will have to back down. Choose your battles wisely. If you let him win on the less important issues, he will listen to you in the more important ones.
Let him have a chance to showcase his machismo. Go to him for help when you know he will have a chance to show-off. This stroking of his ego will make him fall for you even harder. He does appreciate your independence. But sometimes his male ego needs validation too.