What is a dildo and how do you use it correctly?


The dildo is a very popular sex toy in bed. The phallus copy was used by both women and men for their own stimulation or together in the act of love. Here we show you how to use a dildo correctly and introduce you to different types.

Definition and history – what is a dildo?

A dildo is a reproduction of an erect penis. You can introduce it to yourself for masturbation or use it with your partner.

Dildos are not an invention of the last century. They have been around for several thousand years. Egyptians and Chinese made a whole range of different dildos.
The origin of the term “dildo” is not quite clear. The Oxford English Dictionary concluded in 2008 that it is probably an arbitrary string of syllables.
Dildos nowadays come in a wide variety of designs. Thin, thick, small, extra large, with pimples or indentations, pink, blue, in the shape of animals or quite naturally in skin colour and with veins – dildo designs

 

can be quite creative.

A similar sextoy is the vibrator. But unlike the dildo it is powered by a motor.

How to use a dildo correctly

The dildo is an unnatural foreign body that comes into contact with your mucous membranes. For your own health it is therefore important that you pay attention to the right material and the right application.

Harmless dildo materials are for example acrylic glass, aluminium, stainless steel, glass, silicone, maple wood or natural latex. Other materials are either incompatible or even dangerous to health.

Before you use the dildo, you can warm it up to your body temperature with a water bath. The warmth makes the dildo feel much more like a real penis.
Enjoy the time with the dildo. Maybe darken your room, lie down on soft pillows – relax. It is best to be a little bit aroused before you use the dildo. Because the more relaxed and excited you are, the more you can enjoy the time with the sex toy.

The best thing is to put a little water-based lubricant on the tip of the dildo before penetration. Then insert the

dildo slowly and carefully and do not yet make any violent and deep shocks. This will allow your vagina to gradually tune into the dildo without pain and instead with a lot of anticipation.

Once you have got used to the dildo, you can insert the dildo deeper and let it penetrate your vagina with more frequent shocks.
If you want to feel more intensely, massage your labia with the fingers of your other hand or get a vibrator and put it on your clitoris.
Clean the dildo after use with warm water and some soap. Make sure that no soap remains on the dildo after cleaning. It is best to clean it again before the next use.

The different kinds of dildos

Dildos are popular sex toys. Nowadays there are dildos for any kind of sexual preferences.

Dildos made of silicone are the most popular among the sextoys. They are available in different sizes and colours. Especially unusual ones have for example the shape of a banana or even a dolphin.

Glass and stainless steel dildos are among the most beautiful dildos. They are easy to warm up, are especially hygienic and feel very good due to their smooth surface.
The strap-on is a dildo to strap on. Women use it to penetrate women vaginally or anally or to have anal sex with men.
An anal dildo in turn is used for anal stimulation. It is often used before the actual anal sex to prepare the anus. As an anal plug it provides additional stimulation during sex with your partner.

You can ride a dildo with suction cup yourself and even have two hands free to stimulate your vagina or breasts.

The dildo for the G-spot is bent upwards. With this bend you stimulate it especially well.

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