The sentiments of a Cancer man or woman makes them too complex to understand. They can be easily triggered, letting out an emotional outburst when least expected. So, what makes Cancerians so uncaring, fussy and hard to love? What makes them so distant? Why are Cancerians so passive in love and what causes them to be so guarded in love?
If you are interested in a Cancerians or have been dating one for a while, here are a few traits and weaknesses you need to know about the Cancer man’s or woman’s personality that explain why Cancerians are so cold:
- Cancerians are moody
Cancer natives are controlled by the moon, this means that the changing phases of the orbed maiden determines how to react to their environment. Often Cancerians are not in control of how they feel and may act impulsively, without realising the impact it had on those who are involved in their lives. Cancer men can therefore often be perceived as cold and uncaring even if they do not intend to give off that air of nonchalance. They could easily be categorised in the list of the most bipolar of the zodiac signs. A Cancer native’s mood can often get the best of them: one moment they are all into you and the next they are grumpy and passive-aggressive. When they act cold, they’re probably trying to guilt-trip you into something you refused to or couldn’t do for them.
- Cancerians are sensitive
Cancer men are women who may have a hard exterior but inside they have a soft core. They are too loving, kind and generous, especially when in love. However, when they are annoyed or irritated, their emotions can wreak havoc not only within but also around them. They are passionate people who are invested in those they call their own. However, when Cancer men are hurt or suffer a setback, they could withdraw into their shell and cut off from others for an indefinite period of time. This does not mean that they intend to avenge the wrong done to them but making others suffer but their coldness is a sign of passive aggression, a mechanism and saving themselves from the harm from an enemy.
- Cancerians are defensive
Cancer women and men are most comfortable in the confines of their home. They like to interact with their family and friends, the trusted ones. As a Cancerian has difficulty trusting people with their emotions, they tend to depend a lot on those they call their own. So, when they maintain a distance from you and behave like you mean nothing to them, they may not consider you important enough. Cancerians are territorial. They are generally calm and shy but if they have to defend their people, they’ll become martyrs. They’ll avoid you if you haven’t proven your worth or credibility yet to become part of their inner circle.
- Cancerians are confused
Cancer natives can often suffer from dilemmas as they struggle to make firm decisions. They are often swayed or distracted by multiple ideas and opinions. As they find themselves torn between different belief systems, they could be drawn inwards when unable to choose the right way. So, you might find a Cancerian maintaining a distance or neglecting you if there is something that’s tormenting them mentally. They’ll lack mental clarity and ability to choose a logical path without letting their emotions sway them.
- Cancerians are busy
Cancerians are busy making plans for their home and rainy days. Just like a Crab, which symbolises the Cancer zodiac sign, they like to stay occupied ensuring that they are secure and protected. When Cancer men or women give off an air as though they are busy or aloof of your advances towards them, they could have some important things to do that’s taking up most of their time. They do not necessarily mean to disregard you but Cancerians will always prioritise their home or a loved one over anyone else. So, if they pretend to be uninvolved or unmoved by your requests, they may have a greater commitment elsewhere that needs their attention.
- Cancerians have high expectations
Cancerians being too nurturing and kind, expect the same from others too. When they set some expectations from someone and that’s left unfulfilled or unmet, it may push the wrong buttons and cause Cancerians to draw up a wall and refuse to let them in. Cancer males and females are also suspicious of others so they may take years to repose their faith in someone unless immense strides have been made to win over them again. Cancer native lack the patience to wait and watch, they often make decisions in haste, quickly drawing conclusions about people and pushing them away if they are disgruntled.
- Cancerians are sly
Though Cancer men are women seem naive, they have a dark side that’s sly and cunning. They often get their jobs done pretending to be the victim. If Cancer natives ignore you or act hot and cold, they may have had their purpose served and they no longer feel your need. Because they have a tendency to act selfish, Cancer men and women are often found resorting to self-absorbed behaviours to have their way or to manipulate people to help them. They are unpredictable people who are difficult to keep pace with. Cancerians and known to be a bit clingy and possessive. So, when they act opposite to that and behave like they can do without your company, they’ve already made a calculated decision to detach and move on. They’re no longer interested in you or that you no longer excite them romantically or sensually.