10 Qualities the Indian society expects from an eligible spinster!

Questions like “Are you a girl in the marriageable age zone?” or “Do you know what qualities you need to have to be an eligible Spinster?” starts rolling around us when a girl turns 25 or sometimes even earlier! With this age comes a long list of expectations that various people from your neighborhood, your relatives etc have from you. These expectations make you the perfect “marriage material”. Being a Sati Savitri and “Sanskaari” is not just enough to digest for them; you also need to have a lot of other qualities as well. So here are some 15 ridiculous qualities which are expected from an eligible spinster to make her a perfect marriage material!

10 Qualities the Indian society expects from an eligible spinster!

  • You need to be fair!

No matter how educated , intelligent or well-behaved you are; this has to be the first priority. And if also your skin is dull then everyone around you have options to make you fair looking i.e. – face masks, skin whitening treatments and what not! Errgghh!!

 

  • Making round chapattis are what you are supposed to do.

Practice makes a man perfect and talking about women, this is applicable for making “round chapattis”! You need to keep practicing it until you succeed. All your aunties, sister etc becomes your teacher in mastering this skill you. But will the chapatti stay the same after we eat it?

 

  • Wearing revealing Clothes is a Crime.

10 Qualities the Indian society expects from an eligible spinster!

How can you even think of wearing a shorts or a one piece!?” It’s a heinous crime according to your mom and aunts. Well, why can’t we? Everyone has a freedom to wear anything and therefore we can wear what we want to!

 

  • You are Virgin, right?

The answer to this question depicts your image. Everyone starts judging your character and starts talking about. Its okay if the boy is not a virgin but for the girl, she should be virgin. But why the hell?

 

  • No late night parties baby.

Late night parties are strictly prohibited. No answers for it but its not good girls!

 

  • Be Sanskaari, Do Pooja every day.

10 Qualities the Indian society expects from an eligible spinster!

This is one of the important aspects which make you a marriage material and this is what impresses every other person. So to be an eligible spinster you need to go to the temple and you need to do our Pooja every day!

 

  • Leave Boyfriends you can’t even have a Boy as your friend!

What will people think if they see you hang out with boys? A No! You can’t do this. People will think bad about you etc. parents keep on saying things as it’s not good to hang out with boys! Lame!

 

  • Never talk back!

Never! Even if you are absolutely correct and the other person is absolutely wrong. This will create a bad impression of yours, sweet heart. No matter how bad you feel.

 

  • Just smile, don’t laugh.

10 Qualities the Indian society expects from an eligible spinster!

It’s just like taking away self’s identity and creating a new You! Well, why can’t we laugh? Will it kill someone?

 

  • Saree Draping.

A compulsory thing which every girl should know and should master in it.

 

Do let us know what do you think about all these things and share your point of view!Take Care!

 

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