Usually, guys are easy to figure out but when it comes to love, women aren’t so sure. Although he leaves some subtle signs we just don’t notice them. If you start paying attention to the signs then you’ll know that he has a crush on you. So why doesn’t he confess it? Because he fears rejection and also values friendship way more to risk it.
But he might have been dropping hints of all kinds to notice them and make a move. Even if you don’t like him that way there’s no harm in knowing that he likes you.
You just have to notice these obvious signs to know whether he has a crush on you.
#He dotes on you
A perfect way to tell if he is attracted to you or not is to notice how much he dotes on you. If he really likes you’ll find him doing all sorts of things for you like he doesn’t leave your side, buys you a drink, drops you home or makes sure you reach home safely etc. This is a so obvious sign that he wants to pursue you.
#He only has his eyes for you
If you ever notice, you would see that he never eyes any other girls. There may be hundred people in the room but what you say is the only thing that matters to him. He never leaves your side and stays put right next to you even when his gang is there then he likes you more than a friend.
If a guy likes you, he would do all possible things to stay as close to you as he can. He’ll initiate conversations even if it is just saying a hi. But there are some guys who are shy, but nonetheless, even they will muster up the courage to make plans to go out with you just to spend some time.
#He has suddenly become a world class comedian
If he has the hots for you, he’ll be as comfortable as he can with you. He also wants you to be at ease with him and that’s why he’ll crack silly jokes and have a good laugh with you. If he laughs at your silly mistakes but doesn’t hurt your feelings then that’s the cue that he likes you.
#He remembers all the things about you
Most of the times guys do not care to remember the things we girls babble out. But if he listens to each and everything you say and remembers all those tiny details then he likes you. You might think he is just being polite about things but no its not so as men usually don’t care!
#He doesn’t shy away from physical contact
If someone, who is not close with you touches you its normal that you’ll flinch or hesitate. Same happens with the guy. If he is comfortable enough with you and if he himself makes an effort to touch you, then that’s a sign. If he places his hand on the small of your back, if he leans close to you while talking, if he makes an effort to stand close to you then he definitely likes you. Everything from a simple brush of his hand to him leaning closer are all the signs of attraction.
#He treats your life like a celebrity magazine
He stalks all your updates on social media. And he wants to know everything from your likes to dislikes, from your best friends to enemies and so on then you’ve got a crush on your hand. He basically wants to know more about you and also about your love life and interests, you know just the basic research.
#He makes an effort to look good
Men are as equally bothered about their looks as women. Just like women won’t leave the mirror until they get the perfect winged eyeliner, guys too won’t until they don’t perfect their hairs. They want to look good and also feel like they are on cloud nine when you compliment them. Well, they did get ready to impress you, your compliment matters a lot.
#He aligns his interests with yours
When you notice him aligning his interests with you don’t be creeped out. He is just letting you know that you to have a lot in common. He is just hinting it to you as to how fun it would be if you are ever going to spend time with him. It works in your favor because good times are always to be treasured.
#He feels happy to see you
‘I m so glad you are here’, if this is what he says when he meets up with you then he genuinely has a crush on you. Wouldn’t you light up when your crush walks in? It’s the same for him. His heart rate probably spikes up when you smile at him and say hi.
#He teases you
I know even as a friend he might be teasing you. But there is a slight difference in him teasing you as a friend and as something more. He will be careful not to hurt your feelings while doing so he would just playfully tease along with riling you up.
#He’s different around you
He is kind of different around you because he has that peace in his heart. He enjoys your company and being his own self around that comes automatically due to his liking for you. Another thing is he might also be nervous around you.
#He touches your hair
It’s all about connection. If his hands doesn’t inch towards your waist or other parts but rather he runs his hands through your hair then his love is directly laid in front of you, you just haven’t noticed it. Because trust me, him running hands in your hair is a much more intimate act that makes all your insides go havoc.
#He is protective of you
Guys like to mark their possession and that is their way of telling other guys to back off. If he sees you having a conversation with some guy he’ll get super jealous and would cut into your conversation. These are the indications that he might like you very much.
#Your instincts are telling you
A girl’s instinct is never wrong, mostly. When your mind keeps on hinting at you that his behavior is more than friendly and his comfortableness around you makes you question his feelings towards you then probably he does like you. But if you are still having a hard time figuring it out then you should probably wait for him to be out with it.
Now you might be thinking men are so complicated. But wouldn’t you do the same if you had a crush on guy? Anyways it’s a sweet thing to know someone likes you and it is a good feeling to be wooed by a guy. Of course, the only way to know surely is to ask them or let them confess it to you.
Anisha is an aspiring writer. She's a graduate in BBM. An ambivert by
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