The “I do” and the ring brings along new responsibilities, but Indian women are trained to be multitalented since their childhood. They get married really young[18-22 years] which gets them a little excited and a little worried about their new life. These passionate young Indian women succeed in managing their family[in-laws] and work perfectly well. These beautiful minds enjoy the following beneﬁts of working after marriage.
Though Indian married women love shopping on their husband’s income, buying something from their salary truly gives them chills. They love saving up their money and spending them on things they desire [which is mostly for the family]. This independence is truly a treat they rejoice and they don’t have to rely on anybody to pay their expenses. Indian women like the label ‘No questions asked’ on their earnings, work doesn’t make them economically independent but also helps them take decisions independently. Indian married women enjoy the freedom that jobs give her.
FAMILY VALUES THE WOMEN’S OPINION
Most of the problems in Indian families are supposed to be solved by the men, women’s opinion is totally neglected because “they do not have any experience with the outside world”.But gal you got the spot if you are working. The in-laws ask for the working women’s opinion because they are aware of her expertise in her ﬁeld. They respect her enough to discuss the problem with her and consider her opinions.
FINANCIALLY SUPPORTING THE FAMILY
Yes! The husband’s take up the responsibilities of paying all the bills and buying all the gifts, but it doesn’t harm to support them [which the Indian women would do happily]. The husbands normally don’t expect or accept any ﬁnancial support from their wives, but her savings sometimes do become the saviour on a hard day. Splitting the expenses[which is not common in India] gives a great sense of responsibility and equality to the Indian working women.
KEEPING THE PASSION ALIVE
Nobody has the right to break her dreams, even the marriage cannot become a barrier for her to achieve her goals. Indian women to follow their passion and achieve their career goal by working hard even after marriage. Working keeps the spark of passion alive in her and helps her enjoy every second of it. The satisfaction and happiness that she gets from working leaves positive inﬂuence in her personal life too. It pushes her to set higher targets to achieve.
Having experiences to share shows how much one has lived their life and working after marriage adds up to all the homely experiences. The women’s are out in a different world with people who aren’t their family but friends, colleagues or superior. Their experiences teach them a lesson and become a part of their memory lane which then becomes stories to remember.
The working women don’t remain clueless in a conversation because their working environment gets them updated. Well, they might not have much to contribute on the topics concerning the “Kam wali” and other homely issues but they sure do have topics to discuss regarding the events around the globe. They enjoy the arguments and debates on fashion, social cause or an event. They are the wisdom Divas.
The ﬁxed hours of work make the Indian working women punctual and help them manage time properly and effectively. She follows a routine that equally concentrates on the work and family, balancing the two priorities properly under the ticking clock. She knows the value of time and also makes sure that everybody at home is punctual too. PRODUCTIVE The work that Indian women do helps them develop themselves and their society.They spend their time productively and efﬁciently. They become workaholic and keep themselves busy most of the time. CONFIDENCE Work makes Indian women self-conﬁdent and increases their ability to make decisions. Work becomes an everyday platform to showcase their talents and the appreciation on the same boosts up their conﬁdence. They build up the potential to face the obstacles and stand up for themselves. The organized and formal code of conduct at work makes her more elegant and courteous. A conﬁdent woman is the most attractive women.
Most of the Indian women do work after their marriage for a lot of different reasons and at various designations. But how many of them work and enjoy the beneﬁts of an organized corporate company?
Marriage and the working woman in India is a never-ending debate. Should female work after marriage or not? I would like to work even after marriage. What about you?? Comment below!
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