Have you ever wondered if your man misses you as much as you do? Sometimes, men can find it difficult to emote as well as women. It is actually a source of real pain to understand what goes on in your man’s mind when you aren’t around and whether he actually craves for your company or not. It is easier to show your love when you are around each other. What actually proves a person’s serious involvement in your life is how much you feel their absence and what you wish to do to get them back.
Missing someone actually proves how important this person is in your life. It is healthy to miss your partner and crave to see them and feel their presence around you. It’s just a matter of time that you finally get so affected by a particular person that the thought of not having them with you is killing. Men are too cocooned to admit how much they miss their women. They don’t want to show their vulnerability and appear weaker by acting needy.
When we see someone quite often, it is very common to take them for granted and not value their contribution to our lives. You overlook the little things that they do for you and fail to appreciate them genuinely. This is the reason why you should take a break from a mundane relationship and give each other some space enough to make them realise what you mean to them. If that distance makes you feel terrible and you cannot do without them, then it’s healthy. However, if you are too comfortable being on your own and in fact see that distance as a relief, then you may not really be very much into each other and should consider giving yourself another chance with someone else at love.
He texts you a lot
The lot here doesn’t mean that he would leave everything to text you throughout the day. What’s significant here is the fact that he makes the effort to stay in touch with you to know what’s going on in your life. He might hold back a certain way if he tries to avoid intense involvement with you but texting is way of keeping the bond going. Now, if that man is really busy with his career and other aspects of life, but still never misses the opportunity to get back to you regardless of whatever, he is missing you. The time that he takes to respond to you, says a lot about the kind of position you hold in his life.
He calls and listens to you
Does this guy call you often if not every day? Does he take an interest in your life? What sort of communication do you guys have? Just quick information sharing or deeper conversations that shows his interest in things that matter to you. In case the former is the norm, he is a keeper. He wants to be there, hear your voice because just you matter. If not see you, he wants to make sure you are doing good and the contact isn’t fading for any lack of effort on his part.
You talk about random things
If he didn’t really care, he would be doing just factual conversations with you. Yes, facts are important but if your conversations stretch over random issues, lame jokes that never make sense or just simple life talks too, he doesn’t want to hang up and let go of you immediately because you already are physically absent around him. Therefore, he would make sure that he keeps you engaged. If he is the kind that prefers being the listener all the time but prepares the groundwork of talking to you, your views and way of looking at things matter to him and hence, he wouldn’t let go of the chance to all that you have to say.
He involves himself on your social media profiles
From liking, commenting to tagging you on posts he is always connected to you. He wishes to be relevant in your life. He adores you and he misses you more when he comes across your posts. All those memories that you shared being physically present, that got captured in your pictures together, are shared by him very often. There is no doubt about the fact that your value never diminishes in his life just because distance keeps you apart. He misses you so much that he is not afraid to show that even on a puclic platform where most people choose to be discreet.
He makes excuses to talk to you
Some people choose to either forget you at their best and even at their worst they choose to build walls. Does he get back to you all the time? That kind of engagement in your life shows how much he loves to feel your presence in his life even if for the time being, it is virtual. Of course, he might have people to entertain him, but if you still find him leaving the rest to tell you all that he has to, you hover on his mind.