You don’t have problems with being single. You have a problem with being in a relationship. If you find yourself in the latter type of dilemma, this is the blog for you. I have often stressed the importance of astrology and zodiac signs on the personality of an individual. While many factors (stars) come into play while deciding the nature of an individual, zodiac sign or sun signs play the most dominant role. This extends to your love life as well. more specifically how you respond to love and related situations. So, if you have been wondering why your relationships go wrong, here’s a blog to help you out.
(March 21st – April 19th)
I love how accurately astrologer, Linda Goodman, in her book Sun Signs, likens each zodiac to a symbol. The symbology for Aries, very nicely, explains why they suck at love. They are a baby. Aries do everything in extreme. They love to the extremes, care to the extremes, are loyal to the extremes. Similarly, are jealous, egoistic, and stubborn to the extreme. Very rarely, you will see them settling for something or compromising. When such confrontations happen, there is only so much that their partners can take. Another very rarely found feature in them is the ability to rationalize their thoughts and actions. They act on impulse, and not always hit the right tone.
(April 20th – May 20th)
To begin with, you rarely open up to people. It takes a long time for people born of this zodiac to trust others. Well, that is the foundation of any relationship Taureans. So, you need to speed up the process a little. Another very important binding factor in love is communication. While they expect their partners to be open about their thoughts and feelings, they themselves have a hard time doing so. This more often than not leads to problems on both sides, as you can very well imagine. By the time they learn to trust and communicate, their partners have already decided that things are not working out.
(May 21st – June 20th)
Your personal dilemma with the duality of your personality comes into play. To begin with, you cannot understand what it is that you want. Which is unsettling not just for you, but for your partner and your relationship. Should you be lucky enough to discover yourself, your problems are far from sorted. You then fear commitment. A commitment of any sort seems very hard for the people of this zodiac. Partly because you don’t trust yourself in a relationship, as you yourself don’t know what you might do when. More importantly, you want to steer clear of any sorts of traps. Love, sadly, looks like a trap to you.
(June 21st – July 22nd)
Your sensitivity is known worldwide. So is your desire to love and be loved. Then what goes wrong? The sensitivity. You start asking for too much from your partner. You want everything to be about the two of you. Know, that this is not healthy for either you or them. You need to stay prepared for the possibility of a break-up. Thus, it is important for the two of you to have lived as individuals as well. Realise people of the Cancerian zodiac that being too sensitive towards the things that happen in your relationship is only ruining it for you.
(July 23rd – August 22nd)
You need to earn the love. You cannot command it. I don’t blame the people of this zodiac for needing constant praise and validation. That’s the characteristic feature of their zodiac. But what starts as cute and necessary in any relationship, soon turns exhausting. Especially if your partner is someone who is rational about the concept of love. You need to realize that the world does not revolve around you. If you truly love someone, you need to give them the same kind of attention that you demand from them. Love is not a unilateral exchange. To be successful it has to go both ways. In fact, it would do some real good, if you can bring the ego down a notch.
(August 23rd – September 22nd)
Now back off a little on the criticism. You cannot help but deliver constructive criticism to people, can you? well, guess what? People don’t like it. Neither will they think it’s as constructive as you want it to be. People of this zodiac have such high standards for themselves that they impose it on others as well. Always finding faults in everyone around is not going to result in the perfection you wish to see. So, while I know that your heart is in the right place, maybe let others make a few mistakes and allow them to learn on their own? Trust me, if things start to go your way, even that will not make you happy.
(September 23rd– October 22nd)
Librans like things to be peaceful and certain. This can lead to your relationships being boring. Stop trying to make rational and wise decisions. Sometimes, impulsive can be the zing that your life and love need. Going further, the people of this zodiac are way too nice sometimes. Truth be told they are the best at relationships. But in order to avoid confrontation and hurting their partners, they hold their feelings back. Know that someday those feelings will find a way to come to the surface. It’s best that you use your rationalizing energy to come up with ways to express your feelings the right way.
(October 23rd – November 21st)
Two words to describe why you suck at love: You Sting. Still, need an explanation? Well, here goes. There is so much about the people of this zodiac that can make them excellent partners. However, all of that positive and conducive energy gets suppressed by your fear of being hurt. You can never be sure of anyone’s loyalties. And you know that if things end badly, you’ll be left broken-hearted. So, what do you do? You break it up with your partner before they can. This might seem like a good disaster management strategy to you, but this only leaves you lonely and bitter.
(November 22nd – December 21st)
You cannot play by the rules. For the free spirit of this zodiac, things need to flow smoothly, like the wind, or the water. When that gets threatened, they freak out. Relationships require that sort of commitment and dedication. The kind that requires treading through unchartered waters and sticking together when the going gets tough. That sort of a thing is not for you. Or so you think. Don’t let your issues with commitment get in the way of love. Sometimes you need to stick around for good things to happen in life. Life is not always like conveyor belt sushi.
(December 22nd – January 19th)
While you might love a lot, you barely express it. Well, you do express it sometimes. But one needs to go that extra mile to retain love. I mean no offense to the people of this zodiac, but you can be very boring. This might be ok for those looking just at the gem of a person that you are. But those who are looking at the relationship between you, it can be a big no. Try spending more money. It’s ok and smart to be money-wise. However, sometimes you have to lose a few pounds from your pocket to add something extra to your love life. Maybe a vacation?
(January 20th – February 18th)
Mysterious is sexy. Even today it is. But too mysterious is creepy. Now I know that the people of this zodiac are a mystery even to themselves. But, maybe try and put some extra effort into figuring yourself out? Begin with understanding your feelings, because that is where problems begin for you where love is concerned. By the time you realize whether you love someone or not, they know they have to move on. Next, learn how to express what you feel. You get so mysterious about it, that your partner feels like they don’t even know you. find ways to communicate more.
(February 19th – March 20th)
Now I know that I have been proclaiming the people of this zodiac to be the wisest. But their wisdom takes the much-needed vacation when it comes to love. The problem with Pisceans is that they live in a dream world. They have an idea of how love should be like and they live in that fantasy. So, when your relationships begin, you spend most of your time trying to make your fantasy a reality. Soon enough, you realize that even the person you have picked to live that fantasy with is not compatible with you. then other realities of life start emerging. Ultimately, disappointment reigns.