Too much of a seriousness in life spoils all the fun. At times we often compliment to a couple’s quarrel with the phrase “Aww! You both look so adorable while you fight. “This is not at all an idiosyncratic utterance of a sentence. Rather it means that no matter how big the issue is, there are definitely certain adorable gestures of bringing back the lost love. The way a couple ends in a fight, is a recognition of the individuality of their relationship. Patch up endeavors are any gestures that eventually tends to harmonize, calm, disperse or wrap up the fight inoffensively and quietly. Behind every tiff, there prevails a hidden love which can work wonders only when the genuine luscious sayings touch both the heart and soul respectively.
Therefore, from next time on, if the situation worsens, try out this small phrases as explained below to end a fight through a pleasing suave.
CAN YOU JUST REPEAT BACK YOUR COMPLAINTS?
This saying implies the fact that the fight between you both isn’t that serious, but yet because of the urge of engaging into a quarrel certain non contextual issues have been put front. Now that you have understood the partner’s emotions, it is the best way of pulling his/ her leg because that’s an own way of enlarging the story. And no wonder you can ignore it with a faint smile on your face, by hiding the real’ you’ in front of your partner.
THAT FELT LIKE AN INSULT DO YOU KNOW?
This saying can be implied when there was a misunderstanding between you both previously because of a third person. Since the ‘other’ isn’t that important in your relationship, it is a kind of reminder to not involve the auxiliary in heightening the tension more. Here the word ‘insult’ helps in mending the miscommunication as well as highlighting the blissful moments of you both, irrespective of the other.
COME ON GIVE ME A HUG
This is a cute way of inviting your beloved into your arms, thereby, foregrounding a kind of mutual settlement. A warm hug is magical in its own way to confess each other’s flaws and emotions for the beginning of a smoother relationship.
SIT BESIDE ME, AND ALLOW ME TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU
This is undoubtedly a polite way of calming down your partner. It means that you are ready to have a talk with your beloved, provided he/she must lend a patience ear and understand to what he has to say. On the other way round, it also implies the honest mode of re -explaining the situation which is partially known.
CAN YOU KISS ME?
This means you are allowing your beloved to have a full control on you right now, so that her frustration’s gets swayed away. It is not a sexual urge but rather a minute kiss implying the grief’s complimented with a gesture of apologizing for the task or rude behavior.
CAN WE TAKE A TEMPORARY BREAK?
This phrase can be uttered, when mutual understanding slowly begins to shrink off. Here break does not mean what we usually refer to as a “breakup”. Rather, it means a temporary stoppage to your relationship, to overthink the issues raised for your own benefit. This pause and time gap is a test to your relationship, to judge if you both can actually live without each other even when the issue is minute.
HOW CAN I MAKE THINGS BETTER?
This means that no matter what the situation is, yet you are ready to take the entire blame on yourself, just for the sake of repairing the lost relationship, because you love him/her a bit too much and can do anything to
make all things right. In a way you are asking your partner to jot down all the complaints hinted towards you, so that you are able to fix the ruptures and fragments by bringing back the lost smile on each other’s face.
I AM SORRY. I AGREE WITH PART OF WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
This is perhaps the best saying without bringing in your ego. It is uttered when you realize that you are equally responsible for all these as much as she is. But then since you respect the love of your life, an apologizing gesture asking for forgiveness is a good way to arouse a genuine sympathy and melt your partners heart.
ONE THOUGHT I APPRECIATE ABOUT YOU IS….
Well, this is one of the nicest way to compliment your partner in the middle of a hot air of conversation between the two of you. However, do remember that this compliment is not in relation to physical features, but rather the moral values. For, it is the upright stand instilled within him/her, which has compelled you to fall in love once again with the same person, arousing the need to sort everything well.
WE NEED TO GIVE EACH OTHER A CHANCE ONCE AGAIN
When you are engaged into a fight, you speak whatever your mind says. Arguments after arguments invites unnecessarily talks as well. Since the primary concern is to bring back the relationship into track, the main point is to look for the origin and not the side ways insignificant issues. In a way this saying, shows that you are indeed serious of all the conflicts and want a remedy by giving each other a chance, to renew everything once again with no further complaints.
HERE YOU GO DARLING! I HAVE UNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING
This means that you have understood the real reason behind all the fuss. And therefore, the only way of bringing back things in order is to rethink on the point laid on the forefront. The greater the understanding, the more the possibilities of ending the chaos in a humble way.
DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I MISS YOU?
This is said when you can no longer bear the silence from the other end at all. It is a way of indirectly asking your partner to come back into your life once again, because the days seem bizarre and lonely without his/her presence. This saying is as emotional as your thoughts and chances are that the fight may come to an end.
I LOVE YOU
This is the final icing on the cake to exhibit the passion for your beloved. Once everything is resolved, a mere I love you can bring you both closer and forget about all the small tiffs and hindrances. Moreover, this adorable phrase essentially enhances the blooming of a new relationship after all turmoil, to find solace in each other’s heart and a shoulder to lean on, for the rest of all your lives.
So, why let a fight ruin your day, when you are destined to be together right?
Chirasree is highly fond of reading and writing and wishes to create a special niche for herself. She feels that her imaginative skill enhances her potential for writing more. Pursuing literature and an interest in theory and philosophy has inspired her to indulge in books.