There are times when every relationship faces its part of hardships and struggles. One may end up being confused in such times about whether to sustain or to leave it. It gets really difficult to decide whether one should try more to liven up the relationship or just move on.
You can know you are over with it when the following signs hold true.
EVERY DISCUSSION TURNS INTO A HEATED ARGUMENT:
A healthy couple is always capable of making healthy discussions and accepting each other’s thoughts and opinions. They can embrace the difference of opinions, if any. However, if discussions about the relationship or other things, turn into heated arguments, one must halt and contemplate.
YOU DON’T KEEP EXPECTATIONS ANYMORE:
Every partner expects love, care and appreciation from their partner. Moments of togetherness, intimacy and mutual understanding build the basics of a relationship between two people. If you feel, irritated and let down with your partner when you want to feel good about him/her, then it’s time you should bring it up to them.
YOU AVOID MEETING EACH OTHER:
Meetings, dates and special occasions are events that every couple looks forward to. There is a charm to see each other and happiness about getting to spend some time together. But if you are not excited, you make excuses and cancel plans about meeting him/her, then you need to know the reason behind it.
THE ROMANCE HAS FADED:
We are not talking about excessive romance. But if you fail to exchange a glance full of love, a touch full of affection and a word full of emotion, then it’s time you must sit down and assess about the future of your relationship.
YOU CALCULATE WHAT TO SAY BEFOREHAND:
He or she is the one you need not think in front of, before expressing your emotions, your problems and your verdict on a certain issue. However, if you have to think before saying anything now, as it could lead to misunderstanding or a heated argument or some kind of discrepancy, then you must know that your relationship is in big trouble.
YOU MUTUALLY HURT EACH OTHER:
If your arguments and fights have taken abusive form and become really aggressive and hurtful, you must stop communicating for sometime at least. Do not cross your limits and try to both give and receive respect when you are with each other.
THERE IS NO MORE INTEREST LEFT:
If you do not feel interested anymore, if his or her presence doesn’t delight you, if his or her thought doesn’t excite you, you must know that your relationship is losing its soul. If you tend to run away from your partner, if you feel awkward in his or her presence then surely you must know, it’s time to move on.